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Love advice? Yes, everyone needs that. When you’re hurt or when you’re in love, you always seek an advice. But remember, every person has different opinion so, in the end you always follow what your heart says. Never give up! Trials may come but never give up! You may cry and you may be mad but look back. Look back to those good things and moments you spent together. Would you give him/her up? Ask yourself. Would you exchange a simple frown to an eternal happiness with him? For all the singles out there. You shouldn’t be tired of waiting for the right one. You’ll realize at the end that he/she is worth waiting. You should accept for who he/she is. It’s like you’re born into another world and try to adapt his/her environment. Accepting each others flaws is part of being in love. You just don’t love by appearance and good personality because nobody is perfect. We all commit mistakes and bad habits. Once you entered in a relationship you should be ready to be hurt. Love is always the partner of being hurt. Entering a relationship is like a suicide. You should be prepared where to fall…whether in happiness or sadness. There would come a time when both of you realize that you’d get tired of each other. This happens because you’re used with each other for a long time and confident that you are just there for each other. You would get tired because you both want to find something new and interesting in your lives. Let me remind you that when you’re in a relationship you should make each other fall in love over again and again. It doesn’t mean that courting and making your partner fall in love with you stops when you’re already together. If you truly love him/her you shouldn’t get tired of making him/her fall for you…all over again. Jealousy. A sinful word yet the favorite expression of every person they want to see in the face of their loved one. Isn’t it ironic? Some people would be glad if their partners would have trust in them but some find it cute to see their partner to be one. I think, balancing both is the answer. Put your trust and jealousy at right place and at the right time. They say that those relationships who always fight are the best and the one who would last. But I believe whatever problems or circumstances that would come, no matter how hard it is, as long as both of you keep to hold on…you would really last. Sometimes I just wanted to give up. I’m just getting tired of this. I just don’t want it no more. We’re really different and we know that we won’t understand each other. But I thought, what would it be without him by my side? Would it be the same again? From that, I instantly know my choice. In love, you shouldn’t get tired of loving and giving patience. You entered a relationship and you should stand to what you chose. Let’s accept the fact that we’re not happy all the time. That isn’t normal. So we better hold on. Yes, it’s very hard. But what’s hard if in exchange is staying in each other’s arms. |
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